Showing posts with label Kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kids. Show all posts

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Baseball Game

Went to baseball game yesterday. Just a local one to see my oldest play in All-Stars playoff. There was a boy around his age helping in the snack bar. He was Caucasian like I am. I could tell he has Vit on his face.I didn't say anything to him. I considered it but was worried how it would be taken..and there were a lot of people around as well. A girl my daughter used to swim with had it pretty prominently on her back as well. I think I would feel more comfortable talking to adults about it then kids. Now of course, if anyone asks me about my spots I am very open to discussing it. But to bring it up?? I don't know I get nervous with the kids esp - not knowing how they feel about it and such. While I am accepting & okay with mine, that isn't always the case with other people & I realize that. I would never want to make someone uncomfortable about it at all.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Being A Role Model

I had this insight & wanted to share it.
I'm pretty comfortable & accepting of having Vitiligo.
Now I do realize this isn't the case for everyone.
I have a great support system & am very comfortable
in my body.

I also have three kids. In the middle is my 9 yr old
daughter. I have always made a concious effort to
raise my kids to be accepting of themselves & others.
I esp worry about this with my daughter since society
seems to send certain images to young impressionable
girls.

I realized that my being accepting of my vitiligo sends
a postive message to my kids. I am not freaking out
& upset over my spots. By my making this decision
I am telling them that one does not have to look
like everyone else. It helps reinforce the teachings
of Be Happy With Yourself. I know that I am
good & will continue to be good with my spots.
My kids are also good with me having vitligo as well.

In a society so focused on looks of one another,
I am proud to be teaching these lessons to my kids.
While this may not be the case for everyone,
it is for myself & my family.